You can't reason with fanatics, and you got one. The thing is I didn't want to marry someone who I'd never see or spend time with. I didn't even believe. I have found strength I never knew I had but if I knew then what I know now, I might have made a different decision. My dream in life as cliche as it sounds is to be happy, and to raise a family - be one of those home mums who goes to school meetings, and award nights, and bakes cakes for their kids school fares.
It seems she'll expect you to become Mormon. I wouldn't purposefully subject my daughters to that BS. First, my dad was a wonderful husband to my mother the greatest mom on earthand a wonderful father to me.
I am an extrovert too, I do feel lonely when my husband is not around on weekends or holidays or when I fall sick. You can also attend their singles conferences, or participate in social activities organized by the Church. It's a great idea to know where you stand so that you'll be prepared when this comes up in conversation. He is coming to church with me and our daughter for the ward Christmas program. Females are not expected to serve and MOST of the girls that do, only do so because they do not have a suitable read: If your GF is an attractive girl and still ended up on a mission then she is about as fanatical as they come and if she isn't already she will be slowly trying to convert you. But, you will probably lose. In other words, eternal marriage really is worth it, I think. I would suggest having a list of chores that need to be done, and anyone can check them off.
We all know people who know that the gospel is true but they will not accept it. But there are many people on here who truly devoutly believed in Mormonism and broke free. It seems like mormons in particular are even more crazy than the majority of crazy religious people, and the manipulation and treatment of people who wish to think for themselves and challenge their beliefs is really frightening. He is also a bit too neat.