So how do we approach saving a relationship with someone who has unrealistic expectations of what a long-term relationship looks like. Don't expect a traditional marriage I am sorry for your story. No one, except someone who has been Mormon can understand how deep the hooks are sunk into the Mormon psyche. There is no way out, either I need to continue to sacrifice myself or get out of this relationship. We see each other about once every ten days, or times a week at most when his schedule is lighter. No one could compare to the man I married.
Might be worth working through the missionary lessons and CES letter to see if they can agree at least to disagree. I married my husband 11 years ago, when he was an undergrad student. All you care about is the paycheck. While there are some differences noted here, in many ways you should treat them the same way you would girls of other faiths. When he comes home he's so exhausted and just wants to veg out and this leaves me alone again. Plan on knowing their religion better than they do at all times.
If you can genuinely deconvert her then cool. We have still not decided about us, since it is at a very early stage. It is always a nice idea to plan for your date in advance. Be specific every time you ask. If you have any questions about Mormonism doctrine or things or other angles on what she says feel free to message me.
If I were to signal him everytime I thought about him, I'd be on the phone with him almost all of my waking hours. I never really thought about the sacrifices the wife of a doctor must make. It was a complete turn around from what I'd previously seen from her but obviously it was something she'd been thinking about. I knew a Mormon girl who got rides from her Mormon friends for casual sex dates with men she met on Tinder. We love each other very much and are each others support system. I'm sitting here after a hour night shift, still having to wash and fold his shirts for his return, clean the house, keep the pantry stocked up as well as support my business, feeling quite resentful of the fact that he's being wined and dined by the upper class at fancy restaurants. Real love just happens.